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First impression matters so make them in the expressive way

  • Feb 26, 2016
  • 2 min read

The first impression is very important. Whether it is a date, job interview or any other purpose. Decades of research proved that the first could be the last impression or interaction as well. So if you are going for a date, looking for the job or any favour from the strangers it is necessary to make a nice impression on another person. Now a day's speed dating or speed interviews are in trend because we form judgements through very few information about someone. So why should we waste our time in lengthy processes while we can know individuals in only initial few minutes. Here I am going to share some top strategies to form a nice first impression.

Be yourself: In any situation try to be yourself and show your best self. Ethics are necessary but showing someone fake identity is wrong. No one can maintain their fake identity for a very long time. Unless you have anti-social personality disorder it is very difficult task. So always try to be your best self and avoid faking.

Get organized: Try to be organised and centred before any interaction. If you are going for the job interview or for the date, take few moments to centralize yourself. For this few minutes of meditation or prayer can be an effective way of doing that. That can give you productive and positive results and you can successfully form a nice first impression.

Pay attention to Non-verbal talks: Many situations are formed in general interactions in which your nonverbal actions speak louder than your words. So pay keen attention to your postures, gestures, eye contacts and nonverbal manners. And you should know the massage or meaning of these postures that are going to the person with whom you are communicating or interacting.

Manage clothes: Grooming and clothing also matter on the first impression. Clothes highly matter on the people’s judgement and affect your behaviour as well. So whenever you are going to interact with someone for any purpose you should attend your clothes and grooming and further you can send the correct message as you want them to observe you carefully.

It is not only about you: don’t focus on your point of view in the first impression. It’s the biggest mistake made by people in the first meeting. You have to focus on the others point of view as well. Question yourself by others prospective and try to see the world according to the others view. It helps you to connect nicely and you can feel free to be your best self. It can be more compassionate and thoughtful as well for you.


 
 
 

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